When you make a decision , a choice, or a path change , you feel very confident and motivated to actually go over the other side, no matter what.
You are ready to rock the world! But beware! Your old attitudes will show up to make your journey more challenging.
Demotivation can be right around the corner and you may end up back to your starting point where your old habits will drag you down.
When things are going not so well and you see that everything is not proceeding as you’ve planned, then is the moment you have to remember to yourself that “WHY” you started your change in the first place.
Obstacles on the road to your goals will come in the most sneaky way:
Your good friends may look at you like you are a retard, at every try you give you may receive bad comments from people you thought they appreciate your efforts, some people won’t even understand what the hell you are trying to do.
Don’t hate them. Just be aware of them without judgment and continue on your way.
De-motivational issues can appear anytime and from anywhere because they are part of your old habits. You must be alert and be strong in order to pass these sticky points and win your fears.
Get a grip. If you really believe in what you are doing, your work will take you where you want to be.
As Napoleon Hill said: “You can do it, if you believe you can”. Others don’t have to believe in your goals as long as you believe it yourself. The dream to achieve is yours, not theirs.
The more you do something the more you are good at it, right? This works for almost anything from studying to working out and your job.
It means that anything in your life is happening because deep inside you there is something that you, unconsciously or not, like about your situation and you are pushing it to have more.
If you have money problems and you suddenly receive a large amount of cash, more expense may show up leaving you penniless again. Why?
You are like a magnet that attracts stuff in your life because that stuff is what you normally do or because it’s just easier for you to be like this.
Being aware of what you are receiving is a major point of your change.
So, what does it take to change the polarity of this attraction to a different level and try to attract something else?
The secret to achieve your own lifestyle polarity change is to adapt your lifestyle to be a point of reference so whatever composes the lifestyle you want will come to you on its own.
This is why it’s important to don’t stop believing when obstacles are showing up in your way. They are just remaining habits of your old lifestyle that are appearing like they always did in the past.
Take a magnet and an iron ball for example
The magnet attract the ball, but if another magnet is getting close to the ball, the ball will bounce between the first and the second magnet ending up to go to the stronger one (or the nearest one).
A magnet can attract or reject, depending on the polarity that is charged with.
Simple as that!
The most important thing to remember is that, both of the magnets never stop attracting! One of them is just stronger or closer that the other.
Every bump on the road, is just another magnet to pull you back to your old lifestyle.
Keep your polarity charged to attract your vision to yourself as if that vision was the only lifestyle you’d ever known.
So, how strong will be your new magnet?
Road Sign by ljphillips34 / CC BY-SA 2.0
Kevin by colros / CC BY-SA 2.0
Magnetic Field By Frank Eugene Austin – image had initials ‘F.E.A.’ in lower left corner. [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
2008-08-19 Flat tire” by Ildar Sagdejev (Specious) – Own work. Licensed under CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons.
Man can achieve what man can conceive By Earnest Weltmer [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons